Sunday, September 25, 2011

Another Weekend- Another FacePainting

 It seems like every weekend is some festival/carnival lately.  This weekend was Family Safety Day at work.  The girls had a blast.  We started the day by going to swimming lessons.  We then went to the picnic at noon and didn't leave until 5:30.
 The girls had a good time in the big plastic balls.  I didn't think they could get them to move, but they did great.  The guy running it let them go until they got tired and couldn't push much anymore.
 We had to get our faces painted again.  Leeza wants butterflies each time.  You can see they match her shirt.
 Sasha went for a tiger this time.  It looked cute(for a while).
 They had lots of kid activities, but Sasha spied the rock climbing wall and wanted to do that.  She did pretty good for someone so short.  I didn't think they would let her on it, but they just asked me if she weighed 40 lbs and I said yes.  Well, with all the food she ate and her shoes and clothes on, she MIGHT weigh 40 lbs!  She got about 6-8 feet off the ground which is pretty good, but the grips were just too far apart for her short little legs.
 Skinny Leeza doesn't weigh 40 lbs no matter how many layers of clothes she wears, but they didn't ask about her.  She did good and got maybe 10 ft up.  Her long legs help her and she has the strongest arm muscles I have ever seen in a kid her size.
 Leeza would get to the point I couldn't reach her and then call for Mommy to help! 
 They had a lot of bounce houses and slides and obstacles courses. 
 Up the stairs and down the slide- over and over again.
 We also had to get air brushed tattoos.  Leeza got(surprisingly) a butterfly.
 Sasha wanted a pirate ship, but they didn't have one so she got a purple hippo.  We had to be very careful at bathtime to NOT get them wet as they wanted to keep them for the next day.
 My little butterfly girl
 Along with the other activites, they had a food tent and a building with strawberry smoothies, cotton candy, popcorn and icecream.  We had to try each.  So after an hour of running around, eating a little of everything, Sasha's face looked a little less like a tiger.  They had a great time and even Sasha was tired that night.
 I've started letting Leeza play with my computer.  She is very intense on it.  Computers are serious business.
Sasha helps and occassionally, Leeza lets her drive the computer, but mainly Leeza uses the mouse and Sasha points to the screen.  They are in their gymnastics outfits.  They wear them every night after school.  Every night!  They are in them now.  I guess that means they like them.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

I hate School Busses



So far at the start of each school year, I have had to write a post about school busses and how they messed up.  It is the 4th week of school this year and I am finally ready to write this year's post.  They decided to not mess up this year by just not showing up- Ever!  The bus company decided that they would no longer transport the kids from out of the school district due to budget cuts.  The funny thing was that we PAID the bus company each month to transport the kids so how can getting paid less help your budget?  the bus that Leeza needed to take comes to her daycare anyway to pick up another boy from the "right " school district and then takes him and the SINGLE other child in the bus to the school.  That is right the bus comes to the daycare and goes to the school and carries 2 kids.  How could transporting Leeza cost them anything?  Plus since I was paying them, they should have been coming out ahead moneywise.  
So I tried to find a plan B. Pershing school has an Early Learning Center which is where Leeza went and a location at the YMCA and at the girls daycare.  Last year, at Leeza year end review, they wanted me to switch Leeza to the class at the daycare, but I liked the facilities at the school so she continued to go to the Early Learning Center.  So I thought we could just switch Leeza to the class at her daycare.  Sasha was already in the class.  When I asked about it, suddenly they said that the daycare class was only for Decatur district kids(the school is for all county districts) and poor Sasha and 5 other little kids got expelled from class.  Expelled at age 3- good going Sasha : ) .  After 2 days of her crying when the teacher came to get the other kids in her daycare room for class, Sasha's teacher "snuck" her back into class unofficially- so now she was a law breaking 3 year old!  That's my girl! 
I fought to get the bus company to reverse their decision, but it came down to the one manager who just didn't want to.  he said that maybe the busses would fill up later in the year with district kids and he had to save space.  The bus held 20 kids and there were 2 on it- must be expecting a huge rush!  So after 3 weeks of fighting, I finally withdrew Leeza from the Learning Center.  A school dropout at 4- Poor Leeza really liked going to the school and was being stressed out about the whole situation since she knew something weas up as she wasn't riding the bus and mama was coming to drive her around each day.  I was able to get her speech therapy relocated to her daycare so she still has her speech therapy each week.
Now after all of this, they tell me that they are working to change the daycare to a county instead of district class(since both the Learning Center and the YMCA were already county schools, but someone didn't fill out paperwork for the daycare).  So Leeza might end up in the class at daycare which is what I asked for 4 weeks ago.  Sasha may be able to attend class officially, but who knows.  The lady, Ms Tracey, who is Leeza's daycare caregiver is a really good teacher.  So even if Leeza isn't offically in preK, she will be getting the same info - just in a little less formal setup.
I think somewhere someone forgot that we are talking about little 4 year old kids here.  I sometimes wonder where common sense goes, but in this case bureaucracy and ego won the day and beat the little kids.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

2 Years ago today

Two years ago today late in the afternoon, a judge approved the adoption of my 2 girls.  Due to paperwork issues, the doctor at the baby house and the ministry of education official both had to testifiy that even though there were paperwork issues that the judge should approve the adoption.  All testimony was translated for me except for this part.  I knew what they were discussing, but they did not want me to know what they were discussing even though Everyone knew that Everyone knew.  Just stand there smiling and pretend not to notice anything was going on.  I got very lucky and got the nice doctor at the baby house assigned to my case(there were 3 doctors there).  She really wanted the girls to find a home and knew that I was their chance.  I owe her a lot.  Sadly, that night her husband passed away suddenly so I never got to say thank you to her.  I do remember her whenever I read of other families having a rough time at court and realize how lucky we were to have someone who was kind and truely cared about the children there.  I do not even know her name which is really sad.  So this is my way of saying Thank You even though she will never see this. 
The doctor with me after court outside the courthouse.